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DAD (Happy Fathers Day)


I know Fathers are understanding and they don't get as much love as they deserve.

Their hard work is seldom acknowledged, simply because we think it's their responsibility, why then do we need to applaud a father for doing his duty.  music cover

Rather often than not we are angry at them for reasons we think holds water, I also understand that my father is my father and there is nothing I can do to change that.

However, there is something that I and you can change....what is that? Our relationship with our father, fathers are tough because that's what the society has told them to be.

Sometimes they want a huge, they want to scream, cry or get attention but we are usually carried away.    wrong philosophy

The impression we have about our fathers has informed our opinions and subsequently how we treat them.

Remembering the prodigal son?
Every father is that kind and forgiving but we don't expect them to act in some way so they try to maintain the standards. being good

We always blow vuvuzelas about how some mothers are fathers, how about fathers who are mothers?
It could be as simple as "Dady how are you?" "how do you feel today?" "Did your day go well?" "have you had anything to eat today?"
He needs someone to listen to him too.
A father is not only biological, don't get it mixed okay, but it's also not cocktail, it goes beyond the one who births you. Every father figure in your life should be honored.

To do well in life too you need the blessing of a father, you need a father to go farther.

Your relationship with your father can be better.....build it
Reconnect with your father, make it work.
Forgive your father, Honour your father (how you respond to him, 
Quality of your gifts, attention, obedience )
Respect your father
Love your father 
Pamper your father
Bless your father
humanity

(To my Daddy) I love you Dad😉

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