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Love? (part B)

Loving Someone and Being In Love

“True love doesn’t happen right away; it’s an ever-growing process. It develops after you’ve gone through many ups and downs, when you’ve suffered together, cried together, laughed together.” – Ricardo juatychidd.comMontalban

Loving someone and being in love with someone are similar feelings with some key differences. Professional life coach and relationship expert Kemi Sogunle says, “Being in love with someone can stem from infatuation, possessiveness and obsession. Loving someone, on the other hand, goes beyond the physical presence. You desire to see them grow, you see past their flaws, you see opportunities of building into each other and together; you motivate, encourage and inspire one another.”
A lot of the time, people aren’t able to tell the difference between when they simply love someone platonically and when they’re in love with someone. This can lead to a lot of confusion to both parties. Thankfully, there are some important differences t…
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Tech Safety for Domestic Abuse Victim and Survivors

Main topic: A Comprehensive Guide to Tech Safety for Domestic Abuse Victim and Survivors.
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Digital abuse is now a thing, and if you are here, chances are you know that already.
Domestically violent partners have now stepped up their lust for power and control so much that they call on technology for their sinister works.
While you are not responsible for the actions of the abusive partner, you will be affected by the things they choose to do with the technology at their disposal. But then, you don’t have to take things lying down either.
How about some tips to help combat digital domestic violence with technology on your own?

Protecting Yourself

The first step to protecting yourself is understanding the channels of digital abuse so you can plug the leaks. That way, you can use your knowledge of the technology being employed against you to cripple the abuser and live a perfect life – just as you deserve.
We discuss this under the following headings.

Securing yo…


Secret 1
Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.
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Secret 2
Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.
Less human

Secret 3
Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges.  Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.Justychidd is one

Secret 4
Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some …

Manners in Children

From the little we young adult have been able to deduce and work on it and has proven to have a point and work, here are few keys that will help INSPIRE MANNERS IN CHILDREN.Love?

When it comes to children, its a total job all together, mums are adorable and available to put kids at rest and show, teach them the role to follow. Time

1.When entering the house greet your children or even hug them. This should help develop their sense of love and self worth. Nigeria

2.Be good to your neighbours and never backbite. Never speak ill of other drivers when on the road. Your children would listen, absorb and emulate. Children

3.When calling your parents, encourage your children to speak to them. When visiting your parents take your children with you. The more they see you take care of your parents the more they will learn to take care of you. Less human

4.When driving them to school, don't always play albums or cds in the car. Rather, tell them some motivational stories yourself. This w…

Less Human

Where Is Your Brother?

As children, we grew up loving to see people around us. In fact, nothing gave us more joy, like having our siblings, cousins, friends and neighbours around.
My blog is a year older

Our parents had little or nothing, but our glow, strength and wealth was in relationships, especially families. The joys and memories of holidays and celebrations remain fresh and evergreen in many hearts.   Mute2

We would usually lose sleep to happiness during such seasons. It was always a delight to see siblings, cousins, nieces, nephews, uncles, aunties, grannies, etc.
We shared everything in common. We ate from the same plates, shared the same cups, bathed together, slept on the same mats, and even covered with the same sheets at night. We accompanied each other everywhere, including the toilet.
One's fight was everyone's fight. One's victory was everyone's victory. Goal

Sadly, as we began to grow up, we began to grow apart. We began to raise fences over our once u…

Justychidd is 1(one)

Happy new month guys

It’s been great with you guys all the way,
Its official, JUSTYCHIDIDY'S BLOG is One ,it's been a year since I started blogging, am glad you are stalking me, keep it up, I must confess I enjoy it, continue.

 Guys I really do appreciate the effort you take dropping by, visiting and reading my posts, you also drop remarkable comments and I feel grateful,thankful and happy to see those comments, I pray that you get your heart desires. Mute2

For today’s post am going to be encouraging you, I just want you to know that Our greatest weakness lies in giving up, yes dear, its true

It’s the beginning of the month and if you haven’t started saving, its not too late

If you haven’t started any of the to-do-list you have stated , its not too late

If you haven’t started morning or night devotion, its still not too late

If you haven’t started taking out time to read news, books, article anything educative in a …

MUTE 2(here is a story)

La-Kesh: you will die a virgin, lol

In love with no leg
Lissa:With all pleasure (smiling more)

Kesh: Am sure, you are not serious? Am on my way now, see you soon.

(she dropped her phone as she continued to watch the tutorials on her iPad )

 Mrs Betty, her ever loving and beautiful client was already there waiting for her, she always comes to Melissa's studio to do her makeup whenever she was to attend an event or any other occasion.

She has come as usual to makeup, they are both starring at the mirror as lissa makes her up, she finally finished.

Mrs Betty: (smiling) awwww, this young lady you have done it again, you have turned me to a beautiful lady again, my head tie suit this makeup. I love you for this    Mute1 (here is a story)

Lissa reached out for the printed cards where its already written “do you like this? What do you think?

Mrs Betty: is there anything you do to my face that I do not like? my dear, I love this so much, thanks

Melissa: (she kept smiling at Mrs Betty)