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In My Feelings.... (State of Mind)

I'm in over my head and possibly out of my league.
I have become very cautious with my words, every sentence should make perfect sense, have the right rythm and sound intriguing to perfectly explain how I feel without being impulsive or becoming too pesty. Click 1

I'm not feeling it, but I know the feeling,
I'm not literally seeing it but I know how beautiful it is.
I can't hold it but I know it is the most tangible assets.
I've loved and still love you without a price tag. So it's not that I love you but I am in love with you.
We're not all expressive, some say it as it is while others don't. Click 2

Well I've already accepted to not give up, to be there when there's nothing to make me remain and at the same time remain committed to you because I believe that someday you'll not just see how much I love you or feel it but I'll see it from you when am down and just the sight of it will make my heart plunder deep into tears of joy and ecs…
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It was a cold and fine evening; the children are
 soon gathered around the fire place for yet another ‘moonlight tales’ (so it was called).
 It was the favorite bit of their day. Despite
 the countless playful ideas that has conveniently occupied their entire schedules; nothing could out-match the moon-light tales.

 ‘Mma’, was the story teller. She is an average height,
 dark complexioned lady, in her late forties. Mma had an elegant look, from which one could tell that she
 had lived not only a grand life, but also an
 adventurous one.   Click this

She was married to Mr. Philip, who is otherwise meager
 in height and with a stern look. 
He was more light-hearted than his looks implied. 
However, only the few who knew him well had a pleasant rapport with him. Unlike his wife, Mr. Philip was reserved and made loose acquaintances with the children. 

Occasionally, when he ensues to make an impression on children, it ends in a fatal fiasco.
Click Otherwise, on his lucky days he would make a fool out o…

To do list Part 2

You are 42 percent more likely to achieve your goals if you write them down.
The bad news? It is likely that your New Year's resolutions might not pan out the way you planned, if at all. While 60 percent of people abandon their resolutions within six months, 25 percent of people abandon them within a mere 7 days. Now this is happening to even me, so am not left out. 
The good news? You can always make a resolution to improve yourself or go after an achievement, no matter what time of year.If resolutions don't work, and you want to take your to-do lists to the next level, get serious about goal-setting. Last year, I have once discuss and wrote a blog on to-do-list... Click To do list blog post

If you go through or read through Psychology by professor Dr. Gail Matthews, at the Dominican University in California, he led a study on goal-setting with nearly 270 participants. You are 42 percent more likely to achieve your goals if you write them down.
Now You See why we need to write th…

E-book Lover

Happy New Year lovelies, It’s 4:28am in the morning, not feeling sleepy at all,  well actually, it’s been happening for sometime now, my sleeping schedule/Routine or should I say pattern changed all of a sudden, I sleep or feel more sleepy during the day and then up and running at night.

For a long time, like a few months ago I came across thisapplication called “Dreame” is a story / Novel app, I read from my Play book all the time but then I also read from wattpad too, trust me I love the books and stories there, on wattpad I feel in love with the story tittles My little mate, mute story

What are you? By Lourdes the torture, Even though am not still done reading, it’s quite interesting to read trust me. Am not much of a novel or story reader,  so when I see one that attracts me I go for it and so am currently reading two novels from different apps, I know it’s funny but the thing is, I read based on my moods.

On my Play book, which is on the play store,  am currently reading Purple Hibi…

To a Loved One

"If you were to write a letter to a close friend, boyfriend, lover or husband how will it go, please leave a short note on the comment section below😉"

Where to even begin? I am writing to you today to remind you of how much I love you. READ ME

Yes, I know it is not your birthday, or Valentine’s Day, or any other special occasion. It’s just an ordinary day; a Thursday to be exact.

I’m writing to you today because I just came to the realization that life has been extremely chaotic lately and I have been selfishly choosing to focus on myself instead of you and our relationship.  Click me

I would first like to start off by telling you that never in my life had I thought that I would ever find someone who loves me the way you do.  

Not that I believed that I was incapable of being loved, but I simply could not fathom finding someone who could ever appreciate and cherish me the way I dreamed about. That is, until you walked into my life.

 Even when life gets in the way, I still love yo…

Love? (part B)

Loving Someone and Being In Love

“True love doesn’t happen right away; it’s an ever-growing process.
 It develops after you’ve gone through many ups and downs, when you’ve suffered together, cried together, 
laughed together.” – Ricardo

Loving someone and being in love with someone are similar feelings with some key differences. 
Professional life coach and relationship expert Kemi Sogunle says, “Being in love with someone can stem from infatuation, possessiveness and obsession. 
Loving someone, on the other hand, goes beyond the physical presence. 

You desire to see them grow, you see past their flaws, you see opportunities of building into each other and together; you motivate, encourage and inspire one another.”
A lot of the time, people aren’t able to tell the difference between when they simply love someone platonic-ally and when they’re in love with someone. 

This can lead to a lot of confusion to both parties. Thankfully, there are some imp…

Tech Safety for Domestic Abuse Victim and Survivors

Main topic:         A Comprehensive Guide to Tech Safety for                                  Domestic Abuse Victim and Survivors.
                              Prepared by

Digital abuse is now a thing, and if you are here, chances are you know that already.
Domestically violent partners have now stepped up their lust for power and control so much that they call on technology for their sinister works.

While you are not responsible for the actions of the abusive partner, you will be affected by the things they choose to do with the technology at their disposal. 
But then, you don’t have to take things lying down either.
How about some tips to help combat digital domestic violence with technology on your own?

Protecting Yourself

The first step to protecting yourself is understanding the channels of digital abuse so you can plug the leaks. 
That way, you can use your knowledge of the technology being employed against you to cripple the abuser and live a perfect life – just as you des…